Why haven’t I figured it out by now? I mean, this has been happening for essentially the past 40 years. I should have a clue already, right?
And yet…I keep ignoring it.
God’s voice. Or, His urgings. Or His counsel. Whatever you’d like to call it. You would think by now I’d learn to recognize it.
Why is it I always second guess it when I feel it?
And it always happens the same way. Some people would probably call it a ‘gut feeling,’ but it’s more than that. A lot more. All of a sudden I get this overwhelming urge to do something or say something. Today, it was a simply ‘hi’ to a coworker who’s recently become a friend.
This is not someone I speak to often, and certainly not typically after work hours. Yet, today, as I was driving home, I felt I should reach out and simply say ‘Hey. Just felt like saying hi. ; )’
And then I second guessed myself. I thought, no, that’s silly. Why would I do that? The person may think I’m nuts and wonder why I’m sending the note. And there it was again. The nudge. The overwhelming feeling that I needed to send the message.
So I did. I sent a text. And you know what? It was needed. My friend had had a very bad day and was so thankful I’d taken the time to reach out and just say ‘hi.’ To say, hey, I was just thinking about you. To know someone cared.
It’s always the same. It’s always been this way. And yet, I still second guess the feeling when it comes over me.
Why? When will I learn? God knows best. God has a plan for our lives – even something as simple as saying ‘hi’ to a friend. God is in control.
Do you ever have this happen to you? Share your common grounds.
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How is it that we’re already at third grade? Where did the time go?
I have a feeling I’ll be saying this a lot in the coming years, right?
New school, old friends & hopefully new friends
This year our school district shifted things around. There are two schools (West and Central), and they were both K through 8.
West is literally in our backyard, and for the past three years, the neighborhood has been filled with hundreds of kids walking to and from the school. Until now.
To better even out the distribution of students, teachers and expenses, the district decided to merge the two schools, making West 6 through 8 and Central K through 5. This means, the munchkin is now headed to Central, renamed Elementary.
This, as you can imagine, caused more than a little consternation on the part of my 8-year-old. We’ve tried to reassure him that all of his friends are in the same situation. The school administration has done a good job of helping the kids get acclimated, with field trips to the ‘new’ school at the end of last year.
We’ve also tried to explain that the students who had already been at Elementary are probably just as upset. They now have all these interlopers invading their space, their school, their teachers.
And the up side of this whole thing is the possibility for new friends.
All of this seemed to help, and the first two days of school went off seemingly without a hitch! Yay!!!
We’re keeping our fingers crossed for a successful year! Here’s hoping your school years will be just as good!
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Made famous by George Strait in 1995, that song immediately sprang to mind this afternoon here in 2012 as the munchkin pulled me aside, saying, “So, guess what? I did it!”
“Today in art class, we made a valentine. I made mine, and then turned it over and wrote: Do you like me? __ Yes __ No”
Oh boy. “You did?!?!” I ask, trying to hide my smile. I couldn’t help it. I can’t believe it. He’s got guts; ya gotta give him that.
“Yep!” he says with a big grin. “Then, before she left, I ran over to her car, handed it to her and ran away.”
Shaking my head, I ask, “So, you don’t know what she checked?”
“Nope.” Long pause. “What do you think? Will she check yes or no?”
“Ummm…not sure, buddy. Guess you’ll just have to wait and see.”
“Yep. Maybe I’ll find out on Valentine’s day. ♥ That’d be cool, right?”
Yep. That’d be cool. Wow.
What a character. Where does he get this from? He’s in second grade. I certainly didn’t have the courage to ask the boys I liked in second grade if they liked me. Unbelievable. (Yes, I said boys, plural.) Hmm…maybe he gets a little of it from me, after all. Lol!
Any crazy kids’ valentine stories you’d care to share? Drop me a line below and share your Common Grounds.
P.S. I played the George Strait video for the munchkin, who promptly sees the note with the yes/no boxes, opens his mouth, gasps and says, “Hey!!! That’s just like my note! Do they have any other songs about love?”
Ha! Only a few hundred thousand or so…
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And the saga continues. We went over to one of our friends’ house for New Year’s eve, and the munchkin was invited as well.
A lot of his classmates were going to be there. He wanted to know if any of his girl classmates were going to be there. I went through the girls, and he smiles and nods.
“Okay,” he says. “I’m going to use some of Daddy’s cologne then.”
Now, it was a good thing I’d just swallowed my coffee because at that pronouncement I would have spit it out all over everything!
Fast forward to New Year’s eve. He did, indeed, wear cologne to the party. The next morning we asked him if any of the girls noticed he was wearing cologne. “Nope,” he said.
I asked him if he’d asked any of them to smell it to see if they liked it. His response?
“Nooo! I didn’t want them near my neck! They might try to kiss me!”
Lol! Really?!?! What a little knucklehead. Silly munchkin. And yes, we’re sooo in trouble. At least for the time being he doesn’t want the girls kissing him. Guess we should be thankful for small favors.
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First off, happy New Year to you! I hope 2011 treated you well and that 2012 will be full of health, hope and happiness!
Now, on to the story. As I’ve said in the past, we’re in for trouble when it comes to the munchkin and girls. He’s seven going on 17.
While he’s been commenting on “cute” girls for quite some time now, lately, he’s been asking specific questions about dating, boyfriends/girlfriends and kissing.
For example, the other day he asks (out of the blue, I might add), “When did Daddy first kiss you? How old we’re you?” Huh?
Now, the good thing with this is that we didn’t meet until well after school, which means my answer was 23. “Twenty-three?!?!” he answers, amazed. “Wow, that’s old.”
Yep. Of course, I didn’t bother to explain that people kiss a lot younger than that. He didn’t ask me when my first kiss was, and I wasn’t about to give him any ideas that kissing was something to undertake before your 20s! Lol!
Oh yes, we’re in trouble. Stay tuned for the continuing saga.
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Yep. That’s what the munchkin called me tonight. A high school rock star.
Works for me. He can tell me I look like I’m in high school any day.
You see, my mom bought me these cool jeans, we had a family date night tonight at Macaroni Grill, and I didn’t feel like straightening my hair. So, I let it go kinda wild, put on my cool new jeans & off we went. When the munchkin saw me, he said, “Mom! You look good. You look like a high school rock star!!!”
Awesome! He then informed me I should form a band. I should sing, he would dance & Daddy could play the drums. He thought we should call it: Laura & Her Boys. LOL!
Too funny! Let’s hope he continues to think I’m cool. Ha! Who am I kidding?
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So far as long as I’ve been drinking coffee, I’ve been a Dunkin’ Donuts coffee person. Everyone knows this. It’s something I pride myself on. After all, why pay more for a cup of coffee at Starbucks when you can get one that’s better at Dunkin’ for less?
Until now. *Sigh.*
For some reason, lately, I can’t get enough of Starbucks coffee. Really? What is the deal?
It used to be that I thought it was too acidic, too strong and just plain not as smooth as Dunkin’ donuts. Now, my tastebuds have decided that Dunkin’ is too sweet – even when it’s black.
It’s giving me an identity crisis. And I’m not sure what to do about it. Ah, the trials and tribulations of the coffee enthusiast. What’s your favorite brew? Drop me a line and share your common grounds.
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